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Chapter 2012 | Day 7 of 366 | 15 Letters of Honesty

7 Jan

Already new memories are being made! It’s this comforting feeling, the idea that one can just “start over” once the clock strikes midnight regardless of the fact that nothing really changes. We make resolutions, we break them, we make promises, we forget them, it’s like a nationwide tradition and mindset that with a new year comes a new slate. Any who, 2011 was alright, but 2012 I really hope you bring it. 2011 was a damn rough and emotionally exhausting year that’s for sure. Don’t get me wrong, there were many good and bad moments, highs and lows, successes and failures. But overall, you were a rough one. Which is why I will now join the nationwide bandwagon mindset of a new slate.

One of my daily resolutions I want to keep with is my 15 days of letters. Now for this challenge there is a list of people assigned to the next 15 days. Now the idea is that each day I write a letter to the person on the list. You may call it dumb or silly but these letters may actually be really difficult. For me this challenge is to come to terms with how I really feel, and conquer any inner demons that have been holding me back. The challenge in this for me may be to remain completely honest in these letters even though the idea that some of these people may actually be reading my blog and see what is written for them. Either way, this is a great challenge to learn how to be openly honest rather than conceal my emotions. For those interested in participating in this challenge, the days are:

Day 1-Your Best Friend 

Day 2-Crush or someone you’re dating 

Day 3 – Your parents

Day 4 -Your sibling 

Day 5 -Your dreams

Day 6 -A stranger

Day 7 -Your Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend/love/crush 

Day 8 – Someone you wish you could meet 

Day 9- Someone who caused you a lot of pain 

Day 10- Someone you’ve drifted away from 

Day 11 – Someone from your childhood

Day 12 – Someone that changed your life

Day 13 – The last person you made a pinky promise to

Day 14 – The person you know that is going through the worst of times

Day 15- Your reflection in the mirror

I welcome you to share your letters each day with me, I would love to read what you have to say for the next 15 days. So please be sure to share a link to your entry or write directly on my comments area pertaining to each day.

Thank you- #Chapter2012

-star padilla

Chapter 2012 | Day 5 of 366 | Money Saving Resolutions

5 Jan

I definitely want to be more money conscious this year. I use to be afraid of money quite some time ago; I knew I had money to pay my bills I just had a literal fear of dealing or being in debt. As I feel anyone can relate these days with an issue like that.

I’m busting out the calculator and excel sheet(s) and getting the ball rolling on saving and balancing and actually BUDGETING. My eventual g0al is to pay next month’s bills with this month’s money. Giving myself a buffer and not getting into the ‘just had a enough to cover my bills’ or ‘not enough money at the end of the month’ position. So much stress and tension is brought on by money and it’d be nice to  not think twice about it, ever.

Below are a few way’s I’m going to start making the valiant effort in the budgeting direction and manage my checks & balance going forward in 2012.

 

1) Making my food |

I’m definitely guilty of feeding my coffee fix at Dunkin daily and eating out because it’s just plain easy and convenient. When you think about it, $2.50 for a large coffee daily is $12.50 a work week just on coffee. Now think about how often you try and grab a quick bite for lunch and even dinner. It adds up quickly. I think I’ll save a lot more if I try and make my food at least 3 solid days a week and bring my lunch in twice a week.

2) Bills |

I want to make a big effort to pay my bills 1 week in advance. This will help build that buffer I was talking about above and alleviate ever thinking about late payments. I’m updated my phone calendar to give me alerts one week in advance to ever bill I have from now on, so that I’m able to accomplish this goal.

3) Taxes |

I’m a sub-contracted worker. Meaning, I am responsible for my managing how much I pull out for taxes. I got on a great regimen of pulling 25%-30% of the money from my paycheck into a seperate savings, just for taxes. I don’t touch that account for anything but depositing money and forgetting about it till it’s time to file. Granted it may be a big chunk but being 10-99′d I rather be safe than sorry and if anything, I’ll have a nice amount of money to put in my buffer account and/or build up my money market account!

4) Shopping Smart |recognizing needs vs wants

I have a tendency to buy ‘stuff’ aka the clutter I mentioned in a previous blog post, just because I think I’m getting this super deal on it, not because I need or even want it. I buy it due to the shear fact I’m getting a ‘deal’. I’m going to start actively prioritizing my shopping ventures to when necessary (needs over wants/impulse buying). As for grocery shopping, I tend to ‘stock up’ because ‘stuff’ is on sale or because ‘I may’ get to making something that calls for that ingredient and I either never get to making that recipe or the food goes bad because I just got too much. I’m going to make an effort to shop once a week for the week ahead, so that now no food is in danger of spoiling and I’m not wasting. I really hope I can learn to incorporate coupons into the mix. I’ve never been one to actively use them but they’re free so why the heck not?!

5) Give Money Away |

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve donated money or given money to charities and have failed to get a receipt or documentation I did that. Do you know that’s a tax write off?! Going to be a stickler this year about that and maybe even try and find a charity I firmly support and believe in to give to or maybe make an effort to donate to a new one every month.

6) Read a book |

Taking suggestions in this department. I know there are a lot of motivational speaking books on finances etc, but I really want a valued book on money and finances. So please help me with this one, so I can get the ball rolling on a good read that will help me.

7) Remember to live |

Though budgeting is all about saving there is an appropriate time to reward yourself and indulge. I want to learn and understand exactly what I’m spending on my ‘going out’ excursions and try and cut that in half. In the last couple months, I think I’ve done an awesome job in kick-starting this resolution…just need to keep up the momentum!

8) Keep the Change |

So many times I say keep the change or I don’t need that penny. Well ya know what I do. That change so quickly can turn into dollars. I’m actively starting to put all my change into an old glass bottle and once it’s filled I’m going to deposit that into my savings/buffer account and repeat the process.

9) Less is more |

To put simply, evaluating my current expenses and seeing where I can cut costs. I currently don’t have cable which is one large expense. And I’ve change my cell phone carrier to cut expenses as well. This will be an ongoing work in progress.

It’s going to take a few regular visits to my own blog to remind myself of my money resolution(s) that I’m working actively to accomplish this year – but I think this is a good start! Do you have any more to add?

 

-Star Padilla #Chapter2012

 

Chapter 2012 : 366 days of resolutions

2 Jan

The last couple years of my life have definitely had their ups and downs. On New Year’s Eve, I decided to make some changes for the better. I want to make everyday truly count by taking some sort of action or initiative (big or small/ selfless or selfish).

Why am I doing this?

1. My objective is to work on my myself actively. I want to give myself challenges that will help me grow and conquer my fears, worries, and life.

2. I want to try new things. I want to get out of the routine.

3. I also want to stop thinking about doing something and actually start doing it.

I got away from writing in my blog, WITH AMBITION , I was once soo super excited to write in daily, and think this will be a great way to contribute to it again. I would love ideas to contribute to the 365 project and maybe you can even do it with me! In co-hoots with every post I want to post a picture as well. As I think a daily picture can show how oneself changes and grows. Really looking forward to accomplishing this 365 day resolutions !

#Chapter2012

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